Monthly Archives: August 2008

Aug 26 2008

Sex, lies, and videotape: What happens with your career if doing morally questionable things

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Sex, lies, and videotape : What happens with your reputation/career if doing morally questionable things ?

Nothing happens if you are not Eliot Spitzer and are not standing in the public all the time or have a position that is somehow connected to the state and stands in correlation with the honor/pride of powerful institutions.

Paris Hilton is a good example that in our times, escapades can boost a celebrity career in a significant way : that’s what the people want to see and get entertained by. For the average Joe, his personal escapades don’t mean a thing to the world, so there is really not much to fear.
Although most western (and probably eastern too) companies prefer their employees to behave well for their own good, i.e. keeping face and a clean image, the reality is that people involved in escapades are mostly very popular guys inside of companies and climb the ladder faster. Many studies exist that give proof that people who regular go out with their colleagues for a beer (or 5…) and socialize a lot become much more successfull than the boring type clerks who just function.
How about going one step further, not only “abusing” alcohol, but maybe also proXtitutes and even dXugs ?
Having/Enjoying proXitutes among bankers for example is the common thing around NYC and London. Nobody makes a big deal about it. Guys like top investment bankers from GS or people in private equity, hedge funds simply work all the time. It is just natural and good for the company also if they can let off some steam and get back some “mental refreshment”. The girls will be happy to make some easy money from heavy pocketed customers in return.
My Thai ex-girl friend is now in a relation with a proud, educated guy : a former McKinsey Asia expat star. Does the public like to see that his new wife will become Thai : NO (the fear of western women getting replaced…). So do you believe he will leave her only because of what some old-fashioned double moral guys think ? NO, and he won’t be making worse business, maybe he even becomes stronger because of a better mental support by a caring girl.

Let’s check out the situation for soldiers : Whenever the US is fighting a new war, they need to charter some extra planes full of proXtitutes only for “entertaining” their men and keeping them satisfied and focused on the mission. Makes sense to me and no complain on my behalf. Let’s just not try to hide that fact.

For myself, nobody gives a damn that I am doing this site. Some friends know my site, other’s don’t. Nobody was shocked yet or thought he had to talk seriously with me until now.
Our lives have changed. It is not like 20 years ago. Hell, porn stars can become famous TV hosts in the western world. Ladyboys can get respected state official positions in the eastern world.
Gays become mayor in Berlin. Who the hell cares if nobody gets hurt and they do a decent job ?
FuXk the double moral. The people fighting most against this moral decadence are often the worst type of people, groups who would kill other humans because of religion, ethical standards and so on. Those people are the menace to society : They should get locked away.

Imagine I would get supported by some questionable forces, I don’t think it actually would matter much. “Simply” get rich, make sure everyone gets a piece of the cake, is happy and doesn’t want to fuXk with you.
Once you are rich enough, set up some charity foundations for children in need, for education, world hunger and green energy. Organize charity events and invite (pay them or fly them in) some celebrities.
Et voila : you are on the guest list of every major party in town, you get invited to TV shows and are one of the most respected individuals. Deny your past once – nobody will ask again and they tend to forget everything after 1 year anyway. So here we are : Living your personal dream lifestyle from early on still qualifies you to become president/chancellor of your country or to get the medal of honor (Bundesverdienstkreuz). Don’t waste your time/life because of fear a society might want to inflict on you.
Welcome to the real world ! Welcome to Global Nanpa !

Aug 22 2008

Wedding planner : the sudden death of a butterfly man

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My best friend told me yesterday that he proposed to his girl-friend on his current trip in Hungary. Yep, he is going to get married. A bit shocked for a second how fast things developed, I think they are a very good match. They had been together for 3 years, know each other from university. She is a Latin American. I have a good feeling about it.
Some other buddies also already got married this year or are planning to do so next year. Everyone of them is aware of the common break-up rates, but still most try it.

From my point of view, women have their highest value on the market around age 20 and it rapidly goes down at age 30. Very understandable why they are all horrified of reaching that age.
A man got its highest value around end of 30s from my point of view, going down fast once reached age 60. The time frame for “chosing” is much longer for men but they have to wait a long time until they become attractive candidates. The earlier a man marries, the less likely it is going to work out and the less likely he is going to get a “quality” girl. These numbers are based on trying to match the most optimal of all possible worlds.

I recently also got some big time news from my ex Thai girl-friend A. You might have seen her in some of my videos.
She really hit the jackpot. I knew this girl was up for something. Her new boyfriend seems to be a more than capable guy. The only negative thing I could find is that he had been married before, got a son and is not the youngest anymore (49). This Dutch person bought her a house (in her name of course) in central Bangkok, Sukhumvit Soi 31, after being just 6 months together. I hope she lets me visit this place one day when he is not around. I would like to have a look.
They are getting married early next year with a traditional Thai ceremony in Sukhothai and a big party in Bangkok with their friends around in SEA. I really like the traditional Thai style wedding ceremony.
The background of her future husband is impressive. Check it out :
He worked for 13 years at McKinsey & Company, a global consultancy firm. Until 2002, he was a partner in their Amsterdam office and one of the leaders of the European Utility Practice. Between 2002 and 2005, he led the Manila office and also the Asian Utility Practice, working mostly in China, India, Malaysia and the Philippines. Early 2005, he was moved to the Middle East, where he set up the office in Bahrain and established the Utility Practice in the GCC. Within the GCC, he worked extensively in Oman, Bahrain and Saudi Arabia. He has a PhD in Theoretical Physics from the University of Utrecht in the Netherlands and worked during 1993 and 1995 in the Math Department at MIT in Cambridge, US, after obtaining his PhD.

Here is a list of the worlds Top 15 most expensive divorces from Wikipedia. Keep this in mind and don’t be a fool !

1. Rupert Murdoch’s divorce from Anna Murdoch; at $1.7 billion
2. Adnan Khashoggi’s divorce from Soraya Khashoggi; estimated at $874 million
3. Craig McCaw’s divorce from Wendy McCaw; estimated to exceed $460 million
4. Michael Jordan’s divorce from Juanita Jordan; estimated to exceed $150 million
5. Neil Diamond’s divorce from Marcia Murphey; estimated at $150 million
6. Harrison Ford’s divorce from Melissa Mathison; estimated at $118 million
7. Steven Spielberg’s divorce from Amy Irving; estimated at $100 million
8. Kevin Costner’s divorce from Cindy Silva; estimated at $80 million
9. Kenny Rogers divorce from Marianne Rogers; estimated at $60 million
10. James Cameron’s divorce from Linda Hamilton; estimated to exceed $50 million
11. Paul McCartney’s divorce from Heather Mills; estimated at $48.6 million
12. Michael Douglas’ divorce from Diandra Douglas; estimated at $45 million
13. Ted Danson’s divorce from Casey Coats; estimated at $30 million
14. Lionel Richie’s divorce from Diane Richie; estimated at $20 million
15. Mick Jagger’s divorce from Jerry Hall; estimated between $15 and $25 million

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Aug 16 2008

Global Nanpa Escapades – Therefore I Travel : Experience how to live like a rockstar

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Learn how to live like a rockstar with a western upper middle class budget by making smart decisons :
Check out my compilation video Global Nanpa’s escapades Therefore I travel. It contains some of my sweetest travel memories of the past 3 years. I put quiet some work into it, also to let it fit with the sound. A lot of the music I am using for my current videos is developed by my older brother, a DJ – so, video and sound is self-made using Final Cut Pro 6. As I started out with a Casio pocket cam in 2006 for the videos, this compilation video I was not able to produce above 640X480 resolution. However since my last trip, I am only shooting in full HD and no more with drunk camera flips…like promised last April steadily improving…

Back to Global Nanpa escapades : Think about it, I am convinced that my life is much better than that of the often cited Playboy Hugh Hefner for example. I didn’t realize in the past years how important health and age is, but it does matter a lot, more even than money. US college girl blondines are not my taste anyway. Sounds arrogant but I can have more girls than him, paid AND for free. Nanpa makes it possible. I also don’t have to pop any pills before the “magic happens”, LOL. My honest ratio for paid/unpaid female companionship on my recent trips was around 75% paid, 25% for free. I plan to hold it like this for the next decade, turning soon 30 years-old. The freebies in retroperspective were actually often the more painful memories, that’s why I try to keep a balanced ratio : I don’t want to inflict too much emotional pain on others and on myself.

This life is so much better than being a real celebrity, because you don’t have to deal with the negative side effects like getting watched carefully by the public all the time and not being able to walk around freely in public places anymore. I would never trade my life with anyone. Once your skills, looks and budget reach a certain level, you can literally live the ultimate dream life in Asia.
Looking back, I am glad that I didn’t experience all those crazy, deeply life-changing moments before I turned 25 and finished my university degree with full determination in the old world. It might had screwed up my life path. Timing like I mentioned before was luckily optimal here again at age 26. First focussing and taking care of the academic career, winding up the professional career in its first steps and THEN going out and exploring the world big time. Young guys/newbies please take this as an advice : Keep your head down in the beginning and a low profile, keep your money to yourself, most important keep your dicX in your pants and build a solid ground first !

I still have many goals and challenges in my mind to work very hard for and which will keep me busy for some years. Dear readers, please don’t become a weak individual once you have tasted the sweet forbidden fruit like many other’s who toil their lives away for example as low paid expats in SEA, people whose addiction is taking them to absurd fantasies or like those who try to retire too early with not sufficient funds. Don’t lose the ability for objective self-reflection or you will be trapped in the hell forever.

Global Nanpa escapades 2008 :

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Aug 01 2008

Drunk European dies in pool at Ocean Beach Club, Kuta, Bali

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Last weekend a drunk European jumped into the pool of Ocean Beach Club, Kuta, Bali, and died.

I was actually waiting for the news coming out the last days but there wasn’t any. I cannot find anything about it in the web. I got the info from a reliable source who had been there when it happened. It is a bit strange that the public sometimes does not seem to get to know such accidents.